FAQ's 1. What's the mix of 1st time attendees vs. regular attendees at a typical party? Usually about 70% 1st time attendees.   2. What's the mix of couples vs single men at a typical party? Depends on how many couples and single females show. Usually it's around 3m-1f   3. What's the approximate age distribution? Average 20's - 40's   4. What do attendees typically wear during the first part of the party? Sexy casual unless there is a designated theme.   5. Where are the parties held? They are either in hotel suites or in two adjoining rooms. Sometimes we host parties and are always looking for new locations.   6. At your parties, how are discussions around limits and safe sex typically handled? We give a little talk and everyone is to use condoms except with their partner.   7. What's the most common way play is initiated? More of a glance and a smile or more like a discussion about preferences, limits, etc? Just be friendly with people and see where it goes.   8. What's the most respectful and appropriate way to decline an offer without offending? Just say, "No, thanks". You don't have to explain your preferences and nobody should be asking twice! 9.What's the best way to approach someone to play? It's best not to be to direct, especially guys. Say hello, try to get to know them a bit.  It's best to allow the ladies to ask you for play and trust me, if they want to they probably will let it be known.   10. Are most of the play arranged prior to the party or does most "happen in the moment"? In the moment. 11. Do most attendees show up at the beginning of the party and stay? Yes, it is highly recommended that you arrive as close to on time as you can and most people stay until the end.   12. Can we just have sex with each other and watch others? Do most attendees play with others or just watch? Yes, nobody has to play with anyone they don't want to but most attendees do play with others.    13. Does everyone in the room end up in one big, glorious pile? Sometimes, usually it's more like a few smaller but still glorious piles. 14. Are the majority of females open to girl-girl action? Most of the women are open to it...never hurts to ask! 15. Is there any bisexual play between men? Only at parties parties that are designated for that type of play.    16. How enthusiastically are single men welcomed by the attendees? Single men are usually very welcome as long as they are not pushy.   17. Are the younger attendees generally open to playing with couples outside their age range? Everyone's preferences are different. I can say that the ladies are generally more likely  to play with a respectful older gentleman then a hot young pushy guy   18. Are condoms, lube, and other safe sex supplied provided at the party? Condoms and lube are supplied but others are not. We always welcome and appreciate donations of condoms and lube. 19. What does my donation go to? We work full time coordinating our events. The donation help us cover our administrative, travel, and venue expense.  It is not pay for play party and no cash is collected in exchange for sex.  20. Do you video tape or take pics at the parties? We respect the need for discretion on the party of our guests. Nobody will take photos of any guests without permmission. 21. Can I see pics of the ladies or couples attending a specific party? Pics of the hostess' are posted on the evite and we have a password protected photo page. Just ask for password. 22. Are drinks provided? We ask that if you plan to drink to bring something to share. Heavy intoxication is not tolerated. 23. How long do parties usually last? Generally 3-4 hours. 24. When will I hear from someone once I rsvp for a party? Once you have sent your phone # you will not hear from us until the day of the event.

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